Which is easier for you, find things to say yes or find things to say NO?
Honestly speaking, many people will find it is easier to find and obsessed by unwanted things.
Yes, we all love things that make us joyful. but it is not a good idea if we try to resist or worry about the bad things.
What we call “bad” is only our own definition. It is our own subjective opinions on the objective things. Ask for suggestions on the same thing from your friends, and you will get different answers. Why?
It is just because every thing has morn than one side.
Try changing your thinking habit and find positive side from any things. If you say no to one thing, then now you can try to find what you really want from the unwanted thing and say yes to it.
Confirm yourself about the present situation and find what you really want from it. you can achieve this just through asking yourself one simple question:
Yes, I feel unhappy or angry or mistaken or neglected now, and I really don’t like these feelings, But what Do I Really Want?
Take time every day to find proofs that make you feel good and say yes to them. Every time you come across unwanted things, dig them, think them over and try to say yes to them, then you will get easier to find good from them.
About saying yes to things in daily life, I found a personal video example. It is all about saying yes to so called good or bad things. Just enjoy it and ask yourself one simple question: what will I say yes to today?
How many 10-minute periods you have today? how many 1-minute periods do you have? how many 30-second periods? will you use these periods to empower your manifestation ability?
many friends want to know how to use these fragmented time. let us take an example to show how to use 30 seconds to empower your affirmations and your manifestation ability.
suppose you are waiting for someone, but you don’t know when he will come. perhaps 10 minutes, 1 minute or 1 hour later. etc. you have no book and audio lessons with you. how can you use the wait time well?
for most people, wait time means time to be wasted. but for you, it will be totally different. it will be a great gift for you.
many people have put too much emphasis on books, audio lessons and lectures and so on. They have forgotten one important fact:
the true wisdom comes from within.
but you will be different.
Listen to your own voice, feel it and let your voice repeating in your ears. all of these need only one tool: your cell phone. it can be a advanced smart phone, or an commonest phone. how to do?
Open your phone, saying your goals or affirmations, record your own voice, and replay it. The whole process is such simple.
My personal experience
I have used this tips for a long time. today, I have used it again and I felt very good.
I was invited to have dinner with my friends. but I arrived the restaurant earlier. The restaurant is in suburb and there is a beautiful shed in front of it.
I have forgotten to take my Moto A1200 with me. there are many good audio lessons and e-books in it. I walked to the shed, opened my phone, started the recorder and began to announce my goals in 2009.
My phone could only record for 30 seconds. for my goals, I have tried 4 times to make them simplify enough to be included in the 30-second long audio. The trying process was interesting. I changed my tone, my speed, my words and emotions to make my voice feel lovely and inspiring.
every time after I recorded my voice, I replayed it and adjusted it through listening to it. I just felt I was giving a speech.
Time passed very quickly. at last, I spent about 15 minutes on this game. I call it “game” because it is really interesting.
I felt very good throughout the whole process. because every audio lasted only 30 seconds, I could easily get better and better feelings through different adjustments. My goals get more and more clear and attractive too.