Our co-worker is quite lazy and inept.  How do I keep from letting this situation into my experience and, yet, make him more accountable and earn his pay?  Any suggestions?

Fred xiao:

First, I will tell a story of myself.

Before knowing the law of attraction, my girl friend had a bad relationship with my mother because my mother did not like her. I felt it difficult to make them living harmoniously.

This situation continued until I found the book "creative visualization". I began to visualize the result I wanted, for example, my mother smile to my girl friend, or praise my girl friend. things came to change little by little. my girl friend had more chances to prove that she is proper for me. and the ice between her and my mother got melted.

Later, I knew the law of attraction and began to apply it on the relationship. I tried to visualize the picture that my girl friend and my mother sit together eating, with big smile on their faces. At the same time, I tried to let myself be in that situation and felt that harmony. I kept visualizing every morning, and 3 months later, my visualization came true.

for the question, my suggestions are:

0. the most important thing is that you have to admit that you create such situation. you must be responsible for it. This the base to change any situation, no matter you are aware of it or not.

1. you must believe that you can change the situation you see, feel, hear or touch. you must first know this result and then you can build your confidence little by little.

2. make clear what you really want. What do you want your work relationship with him like? visualize it, try to be in it and feel it.

3. release your anger, complain, grudge or any other  negative feelings towards him. feel love towards him. you can read the book "zero limit" or search "release technique" in Google.

You can certainly change our situations and because your co-worker is in your situation, so you can change what him in your reality.

Love you.

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